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6 Things to say “NO” to in 2025
Welcome to the First Knowledge Bomb Newsletter of 2025!
Are you ready to make this year your most fulfilling, productive, and transformative one yet?
To help you kick things off, I’ve compiled a simple yet powerful list of habits to ditch.
Saying “no” to these things in 2025 could be a game-changer for your health, happiness, and overall success.
Let’s dive in…
Number One: Say No to Negative Self-Talk

Your inner critic isn’t a coach. It’s a saboteur.
Imagine telling a friend or loved one, “You’ll fail,” or “You’re not good enough.”
You wouldn’t dream of it!
So why do we allow ourselves to speak this way to the person who matters most…
Ourselves
Negative self-talk doesn’t motivate; it holds you back.
This year, flip the script:
Instead of saying, “I can’t do this,” say, “I’ll figure it out.”
Instead of saying, “I’m not good enough,” say, “I’m growing and learning every day.”
Mantra for 2025
“Speak to yourself with the same kindness and compassion you’d offer someone you love.”
Number Two: Say No to Mindless Scrolling

Let’s face it: hours spent scrolling social media or binge-watching videos isn’t relaxing.
It’s draining.
Every swipe costs you time and energy you’ll never get back.
This year, trade the mindless scrolling for mindful living.
Use that time to nurture your soul and your goals:
Dive into a book.
Move your body.
Connect with someone who lights you up.
Make progress on a passion project.
Your time is precious, so please don’t spend it on distractions that don’t serve you.
Number Three: Say No to Skipping Sleep

Sure, staying up late to watch one more episode or endlessly scrolling through your phone might seem harmless, but here’s the truth…
It’s costing you far more than a few hours.
Lack of sleep drains your energy, clouds your focus, and weakens your health.
Sleep isn’t a luxury
It’s your secret weapon for crushing your goals.
This year, treat rest like the essential resource it is.
Choose an early bedtime, set up a sleep-friendly environment, and protect those precious hours of recharge.
When you prioritise sleep, you’ll wake up feeling recharged, sharper, and ready to conquer your day.
Number Four: Say No to Ignoring Your Mental Health

Your mental health isn’t an afterthought.
It’s the foundation of everything you do.
When your mind is thriving, you’re better equipped to handle challenges, show up for others, and make progress toward your goals.
But if you ignore it, everything else crumbles.
This year, treat your mental health like your physical health
Invest in it.
Take time to pause and recharge.
Set boundaries with people and tasks that drain you.
Seek support when you need it, whether through therapy, mindfulness practices or simply asking for help.
Your well-being isn’t optional…
It’s essential.
Number Five: Say No to Unnecessary Drama

Gossip, petty conflicts, and toxic relationships are like quicksand
They drag you down and keep you stuck.
Drama thrives on attention, but here’s the good news…
You can cut off its supply.
This year, protect your peace. Instead of feeding into conflict, walk away and channel that energy into what truly matters..
Your goals, your growth, and the relationships that lift you higher.
Remember, you don’t need to attend every argument you’re invited to.
Protecting your peace is a form of self-care.
Number Six: Say No to Ignoring Your Wins

In the rush to achieve bigger goals, it’s easy to downplay or overlook the small victories along the way.
But here’s the truth.
Success isn’t one giant leap..
It’s a series of small, intentional steps forward.
Every workout you finish, every boundary you set, and every challenge you face head-on deserves recognition.
Acknowledging your progress, no matter how small, builds confidence, momentum, and motivation to keep going.
This year, make it a habit to pause and celebrate your wins.
Write them down, share them with a friend, or simply take a moment to reflect on how far you’ve come.
You’ve worked hard. You deserve to celebrate it!
TL/DR
Negative Self-Talk: Be kind to yourself and speak like you would to someone you love.
Mindless Scrolling: Use your time intentionally for things that bring value and joy.
Skipping Sleep: Prioritise rest; it’s your secret weapon for energy and focus.
Ignoring Mental Health: Care for your mind like you care for your body.
Unnecessary Drama: Protect your peace and walk away from toxic situations.
Overlooking Your Wins: Celebrate every step forward, no matter how small.
2025 is your blank slate for success
Always remember that big transformations are built on small, intentional changes.
Let’s make this year one to celebrate, one chapter at a time.
I hope you enjoyed these first knowledge bombs of the year.
See you next week for another instalment.
Jay Alderton

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